I have just watched a documentary on Netflix called Embrace. A lovely Aussie mum of three hated her post baby body, so a personal trainer friend offered to train her to get in shape enough to enter a body building competition. This was at a huge cost to her family life, and afterwards she realised that this could send the wrong message to her daughter as she grew up. The strict diet etc went out the window.
Posting the reverse of the usual before and after photos on the internet brought such vitriol she decided to explore the topic of body image.
It is a very interesting film that is thought provoking.