Noeleen something to keep in mind as well is that there are all sorts of reasons for infertility and really each individual is different and will respond differently to treatment. People may give advice with the best of intentions but it can be very misleading.
Many people say to "get a puppy" or "adopt" but there is absolutely no scientific evidence to prove that either of these will help with conception - they are really old wives tales that people love to quote.
I also spent many $$ on naturopaths, homeopaths and chinese acupuncture - all to no avail.
There are people out there who claim to have extraordinary success rates with infertility but who I believe are just making a quick buck out of vulnerable people.
And there is no way you can stop thinking about it when you are in the middle of it. Learning to relax and making sure you have a healthy diet and exercise programme and good to do but as the Doctors told me - people still conceive under immense stress - so don't let her worry too much about being stressed, if that makes any sense at all!